Hi, I'm Rosie
I'm a professional photographer and educator, and I've been behind a camera for 18 years.
I've won Cosmo Bride Photographer of the Year. I've been featured in Forbes, The Times, The Guardian, Newsweek, on This Morning and Sky News. And I've photographed front covers for Professional Photographer, Top Santé, Platinum and Women's Fitness.
So you'd think I'd have my own photos sorted.
And yet…
The problem wasn't how I looked
It was that photos didn't look like me.
I'd look fine in the mirror. Then I'd see a photo and think… who is that?
My face felt different. My smile looked slightly off. Everything just felt like a version of me I didn't recognise.
So I'd do what most people do:
- take loads of photos
- pick the least bad one
- and try not to think about it too much
And with so few photos I actually liked, I found it really hard to show up.
It wasn't that I lacked confidence.
I was lacking control.
No one had ever shown me how to actually translate myself on camera.
So I worked it out.
I built a five-step method using:
- my phone
- a small tripod
- and a Bluetooth clicker
No studio. No team. No vague advice like "just relax".
Just a repeatable way to get photos that actually looked like me.
I tested it on myself. And for the first time, I took a photo where I thought:
"This actually looks like me."
Then something interesting happened
People started asking:
"How are you getting photos like that of yourself?"
So I taught them.
And the same thing kept happening. They stopped trying to "look better"… and started looking like themselves.
That became Slay Your Selfies.
- 700+ women have so far taken the course
- And 11,000+ have gone through my photography training overall
- one woman used the method for her profile photo and ended up featured in Forbes
The messages I get now are things like:
"I look like me. But better. I didn't know that was possible."
Who this is for
The women I teach are not beginners.
They're running businesses. Writing books. Coaching clients. Showing up in big ways.
But when it comes to photos… they don't quite recognise themselves.
They:
- look fine in real life, but different in photos
- have a camera roll full of almost-but-not-quite images
- are still using the same headshot from two years ago
- know they should be more visible… but hold back
Not because they're not confident.
Because the photos don't feel like them.
I get it. I was that woman.
A bit more about me
I'm a single mum of four (including triplets), based in Exeter.
I have a cat called Shadow. I shop at Scamp & Dude and Vinted. I love clothes, but I love elasticated waistbands more.
I also have a background in journalism and PR, which is why my Get Featured in the Press Guide exists and works.
I've been:
- the journalist
- the PR assistant
- and the person being featured
I've been a size 24, a size 10, and most sizes in between.
Right now I'm a 16, and I'm not waiting to become a different version of myself before I show up in my own business.
If you're new here
Start with the free Who Is That?! guide. It's where most people realise why their photos haven't been feeling like them.
If you're ready to fix that, Slay Your Selfies is where we sort it properly.
Or just say hi: rosie@rosieparsons.com
Rosie x